年少不懂父母恩，懂時已是中年人

我在東北成家后，把農村的爸媽接到身邊照顧，姐姐遠嫁四川。年少時我曾因一雙高跟鞋埋怨母親，等自己當了媽媽，才真正明白母親的不容易。

人這一輩子，最容易誤會的就是父母的愛。小時候總覺得爸媽不公平，眼里只有別人，看不到自己的委屈。那點小小的嫉妒和不滿，藏在心里很久，甚至會故意疏遠父母，現在回頭看，全是不懂事。

就像坐公交時，常看到媽媽把座位讓給大孩子，自己站著，小孩子還一臉不開心。其實不是偏愛，只是大人覺得大孩子更懂事，可小孩子哪里能明白，只會覺得自己被冷落，和我當年一模一樣。

很多道理，不是聽會的，是自己活一遍才懂。沒當過父母，永遠不知道養孩子要操多少心，受多少累。當年那些想不通的事，等身份變了，經歷多了，心里一下子就透亮了，只剩下愧疚和心疼。

去菜場買菜，總能看到當媽的緊著孩子愛吃的買，自己舍不得吃一口。沒當媽前覺得理所當然，自己生了孩子才知道，哪有什么天生偏心，不過是把最好的，都悄悄留給了孩子。

別等走遠了，才想起回頭抱抱父母。趁著爸媽身體還硬朗，多打幾個電話，多回幾次家，別讓誤會留到以后，別讓遺憾來不及彌補。

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對父母多一點耐心，少一點脾氣。他們年紀大了，說話會重復，做事會變慢，我們要像當年他們待我們一樣，溫柔一點，包容一點，好好說話。

主動跟父母說說心里話。小時候的誤會、心里的委屈、長大后的感謝，都可以講出來。說開了，心里舒服，父母也能明白，我們早就懂了他們的愛。

年少不懂父母恩，懂時已是中年人。身在東北，心系家人，珍惜眼前人，常回家看看，別讓愛等太久。